Saturday, July 11, 2009

My 4 July 2009 (Bon Anniversaire, America)



My 4th of July was crazy. It was a last minute travel decision that was definitely fun and worth it. While at the ECE championship thing with Danielle and her team (who won both of their bouts, but what else do you expect from the #2 ranked team in the country?), I was asked if I'd like to attend the wedding of one of her teammates in Chicago the following weekend. I knew it was going to be $$$ to travel that last minute, especially on a holiday, but any chance to see Danielle, fine with me. I bought tickets on Tuesday to fly out Friday morning.


The wedding was in a Lutheran church, which I guess is like Catholic or something. They did all that shit where the preacher man says something and then the congregation says something back. It's like a call and response. Or a civil sing along at a Hardcore show.

Whenever I'm in a situation like that I always look around to see who else doesn't know the stuff you're supposed to say so I don't feel so bad for not knowing it. Of course Danielle is some sorta good Catholic and knows all that shit. At least she didn't look at me funny for not knowing it. One time I went to a Catholic church with this Spanish chick I was dating for a Christmas service and I didn't know the religious sigh language stuff or the stand-up, sit-down, kneel-and-pray business and her family looked at me like I was the first born son of Satan himself (probably closer to the truth than I make it out to be).


The after party ("reception" is the standard, old fashioned term, me thinks) was nice. Some large banquet hall in the suburbs of Chicago. Our table was right next to the cake, so naturally they took a ton of pix of the bride and groom in front of it. Yeah, so I'm probably going to ruin the majority of them. Sorry guys. Don't invite me to the next one I guess.
I actually danced! That's right. Me. I slow danced with a girl for the first time since probably 1992 or 1993. That was the last time I went to a middle school dance. (well, I went to 1 high school dance, but that was to fight a few kids along with Chr*s M*tch*ll and "Scary" L*rry N*sky [names edited to protect the not-so-innocent, errr something]. I don't remember why, but it was around the time M*tch*ll broke into some kids house and stole all his dads guns, so it could have had something to do with that). Danielle also tried to teach me how to dance to some pop song. That didn't work so well. "You have to PICK your feet up! You're hopeless"



The rest of the weekend was just spent smiling, giggling, watching movies, fooling around, eating food, walking around holding hands, daydreaming, plotting, planning, and you know, basically acting like teenagers in love. I think we gross out Danielle's friends from time to time with our cuteness. SOZ everyone. SOZ.


Shout outs to:
Kara Bort for driving me to the airport at like 5something AM.
Chicago for having like, no humidity compared to Philadelphia.
Chicago for having bomb ass Mexican food, and selling it at 2AM.
My iPod for ruling a lot.
Confessions of a 2nd Story Man (my current read, started it in 2005 and forgot about it)


Random thoughts: I've traveled a lot, but this is the first time I've had to bring a suit. I had to borrow a suit bag because I don't own one. That thing worked pretty well, hardly a wrinkle to the shirt, pants or jacket. I'd buy one based on that alone, but I don't know if I'll ever need it haha.

Oh, and don't trust the "expert travelers line" at Chicago Midway. What a crock of shit! I think all the expert travelers know that all the intermediate jackass travelers try and up their travel stature rankings by hitting up this line, so all the real experts take the moderate traveler lines. Smart business.


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Listening to: The Germs - Richie Dagger's Crime
via FoxyTunes

Friday, July 10, 2009

Socially network with me (aka too much technology)

Here is my Facebook www.facebook.com/rickyjefferson (you know you want to)
Follow me on Twitter www.twitter.com/rickyjefferson (keep tabs on me...)
And my Last.fm thing www.last.fm/user/rickjefferson (See the music that fuels my life)
And umm my Myspace is www.myspace.com/rickjefferson (wait, do people still use this?)


And I have a friendster (lol) account somewhere that I haven't updated since 2003, but you know, if you're feeling ambitious...

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Life update, and other sorts of things (aka Long time no see)

Soooooo yeah. Life update. Not much different from last year, except the girl I spoke of in the previous post (which rules yo)

Early 2009 - Start seeing a girl that I've liked for a while. It was cool, except for the whole her not being into me thing. Kinda got my feelings hurt badly (wah). It was the first time I put myself out there for anyone since I was dating Jules. Not a good feeling, left me depressed and whatnot. Thank Jah for friends, early Oasis records, the ocean, Alkaline Trio and the Movielife discographies, Gorilla Biscuits - Start Today, Blitz, my bandmates, and Johnny Thunders and the Heartbreakers. No thanks to Elliot Smith, Tom Waits, Bright Eyes, The Jealous Sound, Texas is the Reason, The Promise Ring, The Jazz June, Blood For Blood, The Smiths (esp I Know Its Over), select Morrissey and Rocky Votolato tracks, and whatever other sad bastard music I listen to that makes a person want to knot up the 13 and kick the chair out from under themselves.

Other than that, nothing new. Mom calls me for money, dad still doesn't call me, although I did see him in November of last year on his way through town headed elsewhere. That was nice. I left work early, showed him and Linda around Olde City and took them to lunch. We didn't talk much, but, heh, I knew that would happen anyway. Then he went on his way a few hours later. It was weird to see him in his current state, he was kinda withered down and very slow, but I guess that is to be expected with his disease and the medication and all. It was strange though, because my last real memories of him were from when I was about 12-13, he was in good physical shape, and just a maniac in general.


April 30 -
Chicago bound! Donny comes to my house in a rented SUV (PARTY VAN!) with a full tank of gas, a couple dozen packages of Oreos, and a bunch of friends lining the seats. We immediately throw on the Bouncing Souls, buckle our safeties, point the GPS westerly, and put the hammer to the floor. I had tickets to see Alkaline Trio at the Troc that night, but I gave them to Jules and her BF, who didn't end up going anyway. Oh well. We jammed Alk3 in the PARTY VAN! and had massive sing alongs anyway.


May 1st - On the road to Chicago, as the sun comes up over Cleveland, Ohio, we stop off for some eats. I see a little white rabbit sitting on the front lawn of someones house. Since it was the first of the month, and is traditional to say "rabbit rabbit" for good luck [or jinx removal ;)...] I saw it as a sign and uttered the words right away. A mere 6 hours later, I would meet a girl in Chicago who would leave me stunned right from the get go... First impressions: shes cute, neatly dressed, and very nice (She was letting a total stranger with a pretty bad rep sleep on her couch). The first thing I asked her was a question about Youth Of Today, which was spilled over from an argument in the PARTY VAN!, to which she responded favorably, giving me a serious case of the heart eyes.

The weekend was great, I ran into a lot of old friends, ate some great food, had a comfortable place to stay, watched Temple of Doom and Lost Boys with our host (shes that good), saw some great bands, saw some other not so great bands (that reminded me of why I hated a lot of mid-90s Hardcore), turned 29, and, well, met Danielle. We talked a lot in the days following, and good, good things came from that.

May 9th - Evan, Rory, Connor, Todd, and White Brian came up for the weekend for the annual Boston vs Philadelphia Dan "Stoney" Stone (RIP) memorial soccer tourney. Danielle also came for the weekend, and right away met my friends and probably got a good idea of why I act the way I do. Heh.


So, more on the girlie... She's got an amazing smile, beautiful eyes, a kind heart, curly brown hair, dark skin, the cutest little giggle, a curious nature, and she seems pretty much up for anything. Oh, and she's got Bad Brains, Naked Raygun, and Turning Point tattoos... and... she's Straight Edge! And she's into bikes! and she hates olives! And, and, and, and, and! WTF right? Where has the cruel world been hiding this one from me? Nice to know there was someone out there for me this whole time and I've just been quietly wasting away for all these years...

But as luck would have it, she lives 760 miles away from me. Can anything ever be easy for me? Happiness comes and goes in the form of $200-300 round trip airline tickets from Philadelphia to O'Hare. Pretty soon my bosses are going to wonder why I'm taking all my vacation days one Friday at a time (I need a 7 day weekend, right Waldo?).

I like Chicago, its a really nice city, and as you can tell, I've been spending a bit of time there recently. It's a lot bigger than Philadelphia, and there are TONS of Mexican food restaurants there. I mean, everything I've eaten in that city has pretty much ruled, but I love Mexican food, so yeah.


So, shes great. She seems to like me OK. She's been to Phila a few times and claims to like it here. I think she's just being nice. Ha! She was supposed to move here for school, but she digs this place in Chicago a lot more, so that really sucks for me. Long distance is sooooooo AIDS. But, shes super cool and worth it.


Other stuff... I started a band sometime last year with Donny Mutt, Colby Black, Mark Antonio and James Tussey. We had a slow start, due in part to us always waiting around for Colby to make practices, which rarely happened. Finally we parted ways with him and Donny has taken over the song writing duties. We recorded a demo a couple weeks ago with Will Yip in the world famous Studio 4 recording studio. It's kinda funny that we're goofing off in the same studio that Bob Dylan and Billy Joel recorded some serious music in. Ha. Here is our myspace www.myspace.com/accidentpronehc ... there should be some recordings up soon

Anyway. More soon. I kinda like this again.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Blog? (aka What blog?)

It's summer 2009. My life is as ... as ever, but I've met a girl who is absolutely wonderful and I'm spending as much time with her as I can. Shes fun, I'm fun, we're a pretty good match up. I'm going to do a life update in a few days when I have more time to do so. This week will be pretty hectic for me work wise, but I'm looking forward to a nice weekend with said girl, and a trip to the ocean is in store.



Note: I kind of wish I kept up with this blog. I'm a lazy sack though, so what the fuck do you expect? I should probably delete all the old posts and just start anew, as they're probably all retarded and meaningless anyway.

Monday, September 8, 2008

My weekend (positives and negatives)

My weekend (positives and negatives)
Red Sox

+ First and foremost, hanging out with Greg Bacon. I miss that dude so much.
+ The First Step (even tho it was their last show)
+ Hangin with Thorns and LOLin @ future Holy Terror prospect bands
+ Todd Pollock
+ Wrench
+ Jeff Hess
+ Jeff Start Today
+ Michelle WB
+ Jay Haas
+ Greg Bacon
+ Baltimore friends :)
+ Greg Bacons iPod ("Hey, wait a minute. Aren't you--" ... "Yup.")
+ Saw old friends from all over the place... Clevo, CT, NH, MA, PA, CA, etc etc
+ Youth Of Today cover
+ Turning Point cover
+ Unity cover
+ Carpooling to Hardcore shows
+ Sleeping in
+ mini roadtrip with friends <3
+ that storm wasn't all that bad, and we saw like 3 huge rainbows.
+ Brooke laughed at 2 jokes (Its better than zero)
+ Aram telling us a classic story from a Champion tour (LOL)
+ Jeff Hess gave me a record for his new band, Right Idea. Siked for him!
+ Good food all weekend
+ Rita, Mike, Lina, Jeff
+ Saw a girl get punched in the face twice right across the street from my house Sunday night
+ Rittenhouse Sq.
+ Football season starts
+ Patriots won
+ Sox are now 1.5 games out
+ Late night bike ride to end the weekend

Yankees

- Tom Brady out for the season in the first game :(
- Last shows are always sad
- Colbys pool party canceled because of the storm
- Missed JoeHxC's party
- Missed the first 2 bands
- Saying goodbye to old friends who I probably wont see for another few years
- Being wetter from sweating than from some fake ass tropical storm
- Sox lost their only game of the year to the Rangers
- Unpredictable knuckleballers
- Fake ass Amish people
- Sonic being closed (aka NOT OPEN LATE)
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Now playing: Band Of Horses - Lamb of the Lam (In The City)
via FoxyTunes

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Problems...

The Problem ---> Feasible Solution ---> The Problem II.

I'm starving ---> Eat food ---> We have no food in the house.

Terrible day at work ---> Ride motorcycle ---> Motorcycle is in the shop.

Its dark in my room ---> Turn on a light ---> I don't want to get out of bed.

I'm bored ---> Watch a movie ---> I don't feel like turning the TV on.

I need to do laundry ---> Stop being lazy ---> I'm lazy.

I need to learn our new song ---> Pick up the guitar ---> I'd rather play xbox.

The new Fucked Up record rules ---> Whats the problem? ---> Hipsters found them.

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Now playing: Fucked Up - Magic Word
via FoxyTunes

Friday, August 15, 2008

I think I'm gonna start blogging again?

Its been like a million years since I've entered anything in this fucker, and that kind of bums me out. I guess I've been busy doing nothing, so thats understandable =D

I don't remember what my last post was, but its probably got something to do with baseball or bicycles or maybe even ice cream. At least I hope its one of those things.

A lot has gone on in since I've last posted, so I'll give a brief "howdayado" as we used to call it back in the day M I RITE?

- I turned 28 on May 3
- My best pal Nick moved to NYC & I hardly see him anymore :(
- I signed another year lease at 1310
- I got a new iPod (160 gig!!! UR MOSHIN, or maybe thats just me)
- I started using Facebook (http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=510750428)
- The Sox traded Manny
- I went to a few Sox games this summer
- I've expanded my musical horizon (don't get too excited, HC still reigns supreme)
- I started a new band!!!!!!!! I'm so siked on it!
- I got 3 new pairs of sunglasses in the past 3 months. Life's ill.
- Hot Water Music started playing shows again and I went to see them.
- More stuff. Lots more stuff.

Talk soon?

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Now playing: Portishead - Undenied
via FoxyTunes